How To Meditate

What is meditation?

Before we get into the details of leaning how to meditate, let us first define meditation. Meditation is a vehicle to mindfulness. Learning to be present in each moment enriches our life experiences. Meditation is a tool to look inwards, become more loving, create positive change, and intimately know our purpose in life.

Google defines “meditation” as “to think deeply or focus one’s mind for a period of time, in silence or with the aid of chanting, for religious or spiritual purposes or as a method of relaxation” (1). Dictionary.com says, “to engage in thought or contemplation” (2). Those are accurate in part, except for “thinking deeply.” The purpose of meditation is to disengage the thinking mind and turn off our thoughts to tap into the infinite intelligence.

Meditation helps us tune-in to ourselves and the greater power of the Universe in the absence of thought. When thoughts arise, we can separate from our thoughts to become the observer. This practice helps us to recognize that we are not bound to our thoughts. We can choose how to respond to those thoughts. We can determine whether we want to continue to allow those thoughts to be present or select different views. With regular meditation, your ability to choose your thoughts will strengthen. 

Schools are teaching young children meditation. Take a look at the magazines on the stands in the grocery store check out lane. Mindfulness and meditation are everywhere. People turn to meditation to combat depression, anxiety, and all of the challenging circumstances we are navigating.

how to meditate

How does one go about learning to meditate? It’s quite simple. Anyone can learn to meditate. Simply, come as you are. Meditation requires no skills, no money, no status, just you. Start with what you have; start with who you are. Meditation is inclusive for anyone who wants to partake.

There are many forms of meditation, as there are many minds, bodies, and hearts. Finding your preferred style of meditation is like learning about your love language. If you haven’t read The 5 Love Languages, I highly recommend it. You’ll learn a lot about yourself, your partner, your kids, family members, co-workers, and anyone with whom you’re close.

Once you know what works best for you, embrace your meditation method, and start connecting with your higher self. Remember that meditation is personal. Do what feels right for you. It’s your mind, your body, and your soul.

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meditation practice

Meditation takes practice. If we’re being honest, simple does not always mean easy. Some of the simplest things in life are the hardest to do. Sitting still without letting bombarding thoughts interrupt your meditation session is almost laughable. There are techniques and tools to help with these common challenges. 

Remember that everyone has difficulties. You are not alone. The struggle is one reason for the various methods used to achieve a meditative state. Try on one approach to see if it resonates with you. If it does, then great! If it doesn’t, then move on. This is the fun part! Try them all for yourself to see what suits you. You can’t get this wrong. Be patient with yourself on this life long journey. Please do not rush the process; it takes years of practice to master the mind.

The good news is that meditation is on its way to becoming mainstream, like yoga is now. People are looking for a way to connect with themselves physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Twenty years ago, yoga was not considered just another class that you could find on any corner of your city. Think about how many types of yoga there are now, hot yoga, power yoga, prenatal yoga, Bikram yoga, yin yoga, Vinyasa, restorative.

If you search “yoga” on youtube, one of the top results is yoga with Adrienne, with over 8 million subscribers. These results are saying something. We need yoga in our life; we need balance. Now, if you’ve taken a yoga class, you may have already meditated at the end of class during savasana—more on yoga in a bit.

There is no one right way to meditate. There are multiple avenues to meditate successfully, and the key is finding what works for you. Most women and mamas that I know don’t have an hour in their day to take time to drop everything, sit perfectly still without any distraction. Sometimes it’s only 5 minutes. Sometimes it’s while you’re doing the dishes or folding laundry. We do the best with what we have. It’s more of a mindset rather than the act of meditation.

meditation for moms

Meditation makes better moms. True statement. Meditation can be as little as 1 minute. If you can be present one minute at a time a few times throughout your day, it will help you be the best mommy to your little ones. Plus, it shows them how to tune into their inner guidance system.

Try taking a few deep breaths with your little one. See if they enjoy it. Kids are very tuned in to the world around them and can often see things that we no longer can as adults. Kids don’t know that they are not capable. Anything is possible in their world, and we can learn from them. Meditation offers us a way to connect with ourselves, our children, and the world around us. Meditation teaches us to be kind, understanding, better listeners, and mindful mamas.

When things are hard, we are stressed, there isn’t enough time in the day, know that you are doing your best.

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Before you start your day, breathe in deeply. Exhale. Breathe in gratitude. Breathe out any stress. Ask for whatever you need, whether it be energy, brainpower, focus, patience, organization, time. Breathe in love. Breathe out overwhelm. Breathe in compassion. Breathe out distraction. Breathe in understanding. Breathe out guilt. Breathe out shoulds, coulds, and woulds. Do what you can do. Be where you are. Be grateful for where you are.

Take steps towards what you want, who you want to be. Imagine what you desire in your mind. If it’s calm, quiet, or success you seek, your child or children getting along, being kind, or learning, then see it in your mind, feel it in your heart. You can always return to your breath at any time during your day.

Namaste.

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get comfortable

First things first, make yourself comfortable. Not so comfortable that you fall asleep. Find a position that feels natural to you. Your body will show you what it prefers. Avoid straining or forcing uncomfortable positions that can prevent deep relaxation.

You may prefer to lie down on a yoga mat or sit in a chair with your feet on the floor. Some people like to sit cross-legged on the floor, while others need a pillow or a yoga block. Designate a specific piece of furniture as your meditation chair, meditation mat, or meditation cushion. 

Perhaps consider trying a few different positions to see which you prefer. Most people close their eyes, while others keep their eyes open. Yes, you can meditate with your eyes open. You can meditate in your house, in your car, in a tree in a park, with a fox in a box; here or there, you can meditate anywhere. (I couldn’t resist the Dr. Seuss reference). All that matters is that you’re able to relax.

2 meditation quick wins

1. Return to your breath

  • It’s completely normal for your mind to wander
  • When you notice your thoughts, return to your in-breath & out-breath

2. Your Meditation Position Doesn’t Matter, as long as you’re:

  • Comfortable
  • Relaxed
  • Alert

Learn more about the best meditation positions for you.

let go of expectation

Forget everything you know or don’t know about meditation. Start with a clean slate and set aside any assumptions you have about meditation. Allow the meditation to take you where it will.

Try not to engage your thinking mind. Quieting the mind may be difficult; it becomes easier with time. Step back, and observe your thoughts and your reaction to your thoughts. Do not assign meaning to your thoughts or emotions. Eliminate the words, “should,” “could,” and “would.” Release any judgment you have towards yourself. Let it be what it is. Let it float on by taking the space it needs, to stay or leave.

breathe

Remember to breathe. This is so simple yet easy to forget. Your breath is your focus. If your mind wanders, notice where it goes, and bring your attention back to your breath. Focus on your in-breath and focus on your out-breath. When thoughts arise, allow them to float on by. Return to your breath. Your breath is what brings you back to center. 

One of the secrets of meditation, yoga, or breathwork is that it will carry over into other parts of your life in a positive way. A few years ago, I had a big exam at work that I had been studying for, and right before they administered the test, I started to panic. At this point, I had been taking yoga classes regularly for about three months, and I felt a calm come over me. I actively started breathing and embraced where I was. I didn’t fight it. I relaxed into the “pose” or the chair that I was sitting in; I dropped my shoulders, relaxed my face, and breathed. I released the anxiety.

I passed the test because I liberated the gripping feelings of stress and anxiety. I relaxed, focused, and calmly answered the questions rather than allowing worry to cause me to underperform.

notice

First, notice what is happening with your body and your mind. While you are seated or lying down, pay attention to your muscles; try relaxing the muscles in your face, un-furrow your brow, relax your jaw, tongue, and teeth. Release your shoulders. Stay alert and tell your body’s muscles to let go; stop clenching. Allow any tension to leave your body.

Now breathe. Let your body enjoy the breath of life. Be grateful that you can breathe and that you are alive. Remind your mind to instruct your muscles to relax.

Next, disengage the thinking mind and become the observer. We want the ego to take a break so that we can notice everything without judgment. Nothing is good or bad. Remove all labels and identifying with their associations. It just is. You just are.

less is more

Initially, choose a shorter amount of time than you think you can meditate. Do not assume that you have to meditate for an hour every day to receive the benefits. It’s like working out; start slow. Doing less than what you can will prevent burn out. Tease yourself to leave yourself wanting more.

Start with one minute, a small enough time block that won’t disrupt your day. Do this for a few days up to one full week. Or if this is too easy, immediately try two minutes the following day. Once you feel comfortable with this amount of time, add another minute. The strategy is to slowly increase the time every few days to feel like your body wants more.

Another method is to choose multiple times to take little meditation breaks throughout your day. Once you’re comfortable with a minute a day, then try morning and night, so you’ve doubled your meditation time to 2 minutes. Or once you’re comfortable with 5 minutes, you can have three sessions throughout your day, and you’re at 15 minutes! The important thing is that you’re taking time to be calm, reset, and generate kindness towards yourself and others.

By the end of the week, you’re still only spending seven minutes per day. If you like how ‘Week 1’ went, then continue into ‘Week 2’. Like anything else new, start with the basics, be gentle, don’t throw yourself entirely into the deep end without wading in the shallows. Stick with it. Even tiny little breaks can produce tremendous shifts and breakthroughs. When it comes to learning how to meditate, the first step is deciding that you are going to try it more than once. The world is your oyster.

sacred space

If you have been enjoying the process and want to take it one step further, you can find or create your sacred space, a place that is special to you. If you can designate an area as your ‘personal mediation area,’ then do so. Decorate the space; make it special in some way that is meaningful to you. It doesn’t have to be fancy. It can be by all means, but again it’s entirely up to you to do with as you please. Say a prayer to bless the space and your time spent there, whether it’s five minutes or five hours.

Consider incorporating each of the four elements: fire, air, earth, water. Light a candle for fire. Use stones, crystals, or flowers for the earth element. Meditate in the bathtub or near a small fountain; play the sound of running water. Place a decorative bowl of water with rose petals. Focus on your breath for the air element. If you’re like to be outside, hang wind chimes to represent air.

There is a fifth element, which is called space, ether, or Akasha. Space is not “nothingness.” The akashic records, including your book of life, exist in the Akasha. We have access to this infinite intelligence—experiment tuning-in to this resource by stream-of-consciousness journaling. Designate a journal and a special pen or pencil for this process. Keep your meditation journal in your sacred space.

how to meditate

2 meditation quick wins

1. Return to your breath

  • It’s completely normal for your mind to wander
  • When you notice your thoughts, return to your in-breath & out-breath

2. Your Meditation Position Doesn’t Matter, as long as you’re:

  • Comfortable
  • Relaxed
  • Alert

Learn more about the best meditation positions for you.

Meditation tips

Tips for those who are new to meditation. If you have difficulty stilling your mind, try these tactics to improve your experience.

  • Set a timer – you don’t want to be worried or wondering if you’ve meditated for “long enough.”
  • Start with 5 minutes at most for one week.
  • Add 1 minute each week.
  • Work out before you meditate.
  • Journal before you meditate to clear your mind.
  • You don’t have to sit with your legs crossed. You can lie down or find a position that suits you.
  • Try walking meditation.
  • Use a mantra to help distract your mind.

Kinds of meditation

types of meditation

Meditation offers many forms to address the specific challenge you face. Which type of meditation best suits you?

guided meditation

Guided meditation is a great place to start if you’re not sure what to do. Typically you’ll listen to a voice guide you through the process, somewhat like a yoga class. Depending on the length of the meditation, there most likely will be a few minutes of silence to allow you to start to build the muscle of self-practice. There are many styles and types of mediations based on the need.

Guided mediation is like working out with a trainer. If you’re new to lifting weights, it’s good to use a personal trainer or a good friend to demonstrate the proper form. The keep you focused on each movement as well as keeping track of the time for you.

When first starting to meditate in silence can feel like an eternity, and you end up wondering, “How many more minutes do I have left?” Before you know it, you’ve missed your window of being present worrying about the clock or the timer. You can find guided meditations on meeting relaxation meditations, sound bath meditations or loving compassion meditations.

Try these 5 minute meditations.

walking meditation

You can practice walking meditation by yourself or in a group. If you search your local neighborhood or city, you should be able to find a place or group that offers this type of meditation. It may be more difficult considering the current state of affairs. There are also videos online if you need to stay safe and social distance. Mindfulness Practice Community of Houston explains that walking meditation “helps us to connect with ourselves and Mother Earth.”

mindful meditation

Mindfulness meditation is being present in all that you do. Letting go of the laundry list of items you have to get through on your day, worrying about what happened yesterday, last week, or last year.

Some meditation practices suggest keeping your eyes open during mindful mediation, noticing everything around you. The room you’re in, the floor, the scent, how your body feels. The key is to notice what is around you without allowing judgement or the thinking mind to engage.

silent meditation

Silent Meditation is sitting silently and observing your breath, turning off your thinking mind. No speaking, no chanting, no “Om” or large loud exhale. Stillness is the goal; it is difficult to do and is not the first type of mediation recommended for a novice. Distraction creeps in before we realize it. Silent meditation can be mindful and mindful meditation can be silent.

Silent meditation does not necessarily mean solitary. There is power in sitting silently with others in a group. There is power in sitting silently with others in a group.

mantra meditation

Mantras allow your body to repeat a sound or word to help get you into the right mental state of relaxation for meditation. You could say it’s a proactive form of distraction for our minds. We preoccupy our mind with the mantra, so our mind doesn’t have time to wander off to distract us. If you have loud mental chatter, this may be a suitable type of meditation for you to try.

chanting

Like Mantra Meditation, you will be chanting a sound like “Om” or a name or a word that calls to the energy with which you want to connect. There is power in the vibration of sound, especially if you generate the sound from within you. Chanting can be cleansing and a tool to help release stuck energy. It also serves as a buffer against distraction. If you struggle with sitting still, try a chanting meditation.

journaling

Journaling is a great way to help clear your mind, to make space for what you want to enter into your life. Journaling is like having a free therapist. Once you get everything out, you somehow feel lighter and rejuvenated. Plus, it’s interesting to look back at old journals to see what you were struggling with and how far you’ve come. Dream journals are useful to help tap into your intuition. Even if you don’t remember your dreams, wake up, and start writing about what you think you were dreaming the next day. Once you do this for a few days, you’ll start remembering your dreams more vividly. It’s like a muscle; the more you use it, the more developed it becomes. The opposite is true, too; if you don’t use it, you lose it. If you’re looking for guidance, The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron is a phenomenal tool.

automatic writing

Automatic writing is a little bit different than journaling in that you will receive answers in response to your inquiries. Some practices suggest asking the question with your dominant hand and writing the answers with your non-dominant hand. Another option is to do a mental dump. Once you’ve mentally cleared your mind of all of the things you have to do for the day, concerns, distractions, then your mind and body transition into a different state. If you need clarification on a question:

  1. Ask your question.
  2. Write down whatever comes to mind.
  3. Don’t think about the answer.

Completely immerse yourself in the stream-of-consciousness writing process.

yoga

Yoga has many mental benefits, in addition to physical benefits. Yoga improves the mind-body connection. Often, yoga will gently show you parts of the body that have been neglected, need attention or breath, and overworked areas. We tend to over-compensate due to inactivity or habit. Many times we unknowingly have imbalances. Yoga brings us back to center.

Like meditation, it takes practice, commitment, and dedication to see results. Yoga allows for focused attention to your breathing and movement. Yoga is a beautiful discipline that helps quiet the mind. Notice that at the beginning of class, the yoga instructor may ask you to set your intention for the class. It can be one word, such as love, gratitude, or non-judgment.

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“Julia Cameron invented the way people renovate the creative soul.” –The New York Times

Over four million copies sold!

Since its first publication, The Artist’s Way phenomena has inspired the genius of Elizabeth Gilbert, Tim Ferriss, and millions of readers to embark on a creative journey and find a deeper connection to process and purpose. Julia Cameron’s novel approach guides readers in uncovering problems areas and pressure points that may be restricting their creative flow and offers techniques to free up any areas where they might be stuck, opening up opportunities for self-growth and self-discovery.

meditation techniques

Meditation can be difficult to start practicing because our minds keep us busy and distracted. Thanks to the mind-body connection, you can outwit your mind by using your body to signal that it’s time to meditate, like mantras or mudras.

What is a mantra?

A mantra is a sound, a single word, or a repeated phrase to help turn inward during meditation. It’s somewhat of a distraction. Your mind is busy saying or thinking this word, sound, or phrase, allowing you to be mindful. Mantras can be spoken aloud or thought. It’s almost a physical expression of setting your intention.

When we break the word down, “man” means “mind,” and “tra” means “vehicle” or “instrument.” It’s a way to get into a meditative state.

What is a bija mantra?

A bija mantra is a “seed” mantra, a single audible sound used to help get into a meditative state. There are seven bija mantras, one for each chakra or energy center. Each chakra is associated with a color of the visible light spectrum. Remember ROYGBIV? It’s the same color sequence starting from the root chakra at the base of the spine to the crown chakra at the top of your head.

  • LAM – root chakra
  • VAM – sacral chakra
  • RAM – solar plexus chakra
  • YAM – heart chakra (your palms each have a chakra; they are extensions of your heart center)
  • HAM – throat chakra
  • SHAM/AUM – third eye chakra
  • OM/AUM – crown chakra
You can try vocalizing any of the above mantras to see if this helps prevent your mind from wandering. If you don’t feel comfortable chanting, you can google or youtube the mantra you’re interested in hearing and let that play while meditating. I find it helps extend breathing, as well. For some reason, when I attempt to breathe slowly, I have trouble inhaling or exhaling for 4 seconds. But when I say “Om,” I can easily inhale for 4 seconds and exhale for 8 seconds. A mantra is a helpful tool in many ways.
 
Pronunciation matters because the sound is vibration. Each vibration carries its energy. I think that if your heart is in the right place and you’re doing what feels and sounds right to you, you’re okay. But that’s just me. I have much to learn, so you decide what matters to you.
 
Pronunciation (6)
a – is pronounced like the “u” in up
i – is pronounced like “ee”
u – is pronounced like “oo” in root

what is a mudra?

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A mudra is a hand gesture used during meditation or any other time of the day. Each finger represents one of the five elements, where the palm represents the mind. The thumb connects to the fire element, the index finger to air, the middle finger to space or ether, the ring finger to earth, the pinkie finger to water. Based on this philosophy, when we connect individual fingers or elements, they can produce restorative, energizing, or grounding effects.

The name comes from the Sanskrit, which has translated to ‘seal’ (mudras for modern life). We are sealing the circuit of our energy to direct or redirect the life force energy to heal, balance, or restore anything that needs our attention. 

When a person says “meditation,” you may imagine a person sitting cross-legged, straight spine with their hands resting on their knees, palms facing upwards. This common meditation position is beneficial but not the only way to meditate. The ancient hand positions used during meditation ignite, enliven, and awaken the body to be more receptive to our receiving guidance.

Just like when we get in the car, we put on the seatbelt, adjust our mirrors, and make sure everything is in its proper place before we take our journey. The mudras help to prepare us for our spiritual, emotional, and physical journey. Mudras also offer clarity because the mind tends to wander. The mudras help direct and guide. When we’re driving, we see a road sign telling us that our destination is north.

The mudras signal our intention. It offers reinforcement or support. You can sit cross-legged on the ground with your palms turned up or in the Gyan or chin mudra pose, as demonstrated by yogajournal.com. The chin mudra translates to ‘unrestricted consciousness’ and helps to calm and connect in preparation for meditation. 

Try it for yourself. See what you observe. Do you notice any differences?

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powerful mudras to try

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prana mudra

Prana or ‘life force’ mudra increases vitality and boosts immunity. You can do this mudra anywhere with one or both hands

how to meditate properly meditation techniques for beginners

ganesha mudra

The Ganesha mudra takes its name from the beloved Hindu god, Ganesha, the remover of obstacles. Place your left hand, palm down over your right hand, palm up. Curl your fingers to connect them.

how to meditate properly meditation techniques for beginners

akasha mudra

This mudra can help to release all that no longer serves. Connect the thumb with the middle finger with one or both hands.

how to meditate properly meditation techniques for beginners

pranapana mudra

This mudra allows you to flush your system by energetically drawing-in what you need while releasing what you no longer need. In with the new and out with the old! This mudra requires both hands for two different gestures. Try this on its own or during our 5-minute body scan meditation.

how to meditate properly meditation techniques for beginners

dhyana mudra

This mudra helps transition into a meditative state. Place the right hand palm up, in the left hand, palm up, allowing your thumbs’ tips to touch. This one is great because it’s so subtle and looks like a polite gesture. Do this mudra anywhere.

how to meditate properly meditation techniques for beginners

kamajayi mudra

This mudra lessens over-indulgent tendencies or addictions. Place the index finger over the thumbnail.

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Discover how to integrate more than 60 mudras into your daily life for increased vitality and inner peace

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heat in your hands

It’s completely normal to feel heat in your hands during meditation or energy work. Some people feel tingling or cooling sensations. Whatever you experience, just notice and continue with your meditation. Consider this is part of the practice, the life force energy at work.

meditation takes practice

Remember that it may not happen as quickly as you anticipated when trying something for the first time. Wow, is that frustrating! Especially for those of you who conquer objectives rapidly. Over time with consistent practice, it will become easier.

Think about when your little ones learn to walk. They do it when they are ready. Some walk as early as nine months while others wait until they 18 months old. Like every flower blooms in its season, we will learn to meditate with time and practice.

benefits of meditation, baby learning to walk

Just like working out, first, a baseline must be established when learning to meditate. Once you obtain the first level of fitness, you’re able to elevate yourself to the next level and then push on to the next. 

If you were to walk into a gym and start lifting hefty weights like seasoned lifters who have been lifting for years, then you’re only going to hurt yourself or damage your ego. Lifters who are strong with quality muscle development command respect merely with their bodies. It takes consistent discipline and focus for a person to become lean, strong, and fit. If you talk to the long-time lifters, it’s incredible to see where they started years before. 

Meditation also has different levels or degrees. Start where you are; don’t compare yourself to anyone else and have fun with it! Meditation is not a quick fix, unfortunately. Yes, you can reap the benefits relatively soon after, but it takes time like everything else in life. And that’s the point. It is a journey.

meditation is a lifestyle

Meditation is a marathon. If you’re a sprinter by nature, take a step back, take a deep breath, and enjoy the ride. You are not racing to get to the end. Meditation is a part of life that helps you be healthy, happy in your mind, body, and spirit. Meditation is the path, so rather than trying to get it right, relax, and enjoy the process.

Accept where you are, who you are, and love yourself in that space. Don’t worry or judge yourself that you’re not somewhere else in your journey. Look at nature; flowers bloom in their own time.

where to meditate

You can meditate anywhere. Ideally, you want to find a place or a few places where you will not be easily disturbed. Various locations have their unique vibes. You will see where you like to meditate most by trying a few different places.

First, ask yourself a few of these questions: Do you like to be outdoors? Try meditating in a park. You can sit on the grass or up against a tree. Bring a yoga mat, a towel, or blanket if you like. Bring your headphones so that you can listen to a guided mediation if you’re not sure where to start.

Do you like peace and quiet? Try meditating in your home. It can be in your room, your office, or a sacred space that you dedicate to meditation—more on this a little later.

Do you like the sound of birds or running water? Do you like the sound of the city, traffic, cars? Try sitting on your patio or near a window where you can hear these sounds.

Do you enjoy being in the water? While you shower or take a bath, set a timer to get into a meditative state. Incorporating the elements is another tool to help.

meditation benefits

Meditation is a game-changer. One of the most significant benefits is that meditation gives our minds a much-needed reprieve from the overstimulating world in which we live. It can heal mental and physical ailments, change brain chemistry. Meditation allows for divine inspiration making the impossible possible. Meditation releases fear, provides comfort, solace, heals grief, gives us wisdom, and helps us connect worldwide. Meditation makes us better people. Meditation’s benefits are becoming more widely recognized, which is why meditation is no longer considered taboo.

Meditation reduces overall stress, which has innumerable health benefits across the board. Reduced stress leads to an improved immune system, mood, and lifestyle.

 

    • Lower cortisol levels
    • Emotional stabilizer
    • Calm confidence booster
    • Improved focus
    • Improved compassion, empathy & understanding
    • Increased self-love
    • Increased appreciation
    • A positive outlook on life
    • Find your life purpose

meditation obstacles

i can't meditate

Meditation is an outlet, a joy, a retreat, not another time on our to-do list in our already hectic lives. If you’re not finding peace or enjoyment during your mediation sessions, ask yourself, “Why is this?” Are you physically uncomfortable? Do you feel like you should be spending your time doing something else? Whatever it is, notice it, let it be. Don’t label it. 

Continue with your minute of meditation. Remember that you are growing your meditation muscle, expanding your capabilities. Trust the process. It will get better. Give yourself credit for starting. Celebrate the little victories, even sitting still for one minute, for making an effort. Reward yourself. The next time it will be more comfortable and more manageable, and then you will add time. You’ll stretch yourself, and in one month to three months, you’ll be amazed at the difference.

I can't turn off my mind

If your mind is continuously racing, that’s okay. Try going for a walk or run, doing some push-ups, or dance around your home before your meditation session. Get moving and release pent up energy. The release of your feel-good hormones will create a better association with the meditation process.

Try a yoga class. I found that yoga and meditation reduce mental noise over time. It started in a yoga class for me about ten years ago. At first, I felt stupid and was laughing at myself and everyone else in the room. But then I decided to stop being rude, pay attention, and try to follow along. Once I let go of whatever expectation I had and relaxed, I started realizing meditation’s power—focusing on the body, the breath, and being present in the moment. Learning to settle-in to uncomfortable positions, surrendering. The yoga instructor was terrific. I wish I remembered her name. I am forever grateful to her for showing me how quiet the mind – this is where the real magic is. If I can do it, you can do it.

monks' brains are different

If you are wondering, “How are monks’ brains different?” then you are not alone. Thousands of monks’ brains have been studied over the years by many different neuroscientists. They want to know how exactly meditation affects the brain, the three pounds or so of grey matter residing in our skull. Typically the benefits of meditation are listed in regards to the mind of a person’s mental state. Mentally, meditation helps reduce stress, anxiety, addiction, and improve concentration, memory, kindness, and more. Over the past decade or so, meditation research shows that the brain is also positively affected by meditation (4). The mind and the brain link to one another, but they are not synonymous. It’s a feedback loop system. Our thoughts make connections and create neural pathways based on our beliefs. Our repetitive thoughts reinforce our neural pathways, strengthening the mental connection. Our repeated thought patterns promote tendencies and behaviors. Studies have shown that mediation encourages positive pathways and weakens the undesired neurological roads. 

Meditation is healthy for the mind, and the brain, like physical exercise, is good for the body. Meditation slows the aging process, most likely due to lower stress levels (3). Over time, with practice and experience, our body and brain adjust, adapt, learn, and become more efficient. The body is smart and lazy. It figures out how to achieve the best results with the least amount of work. Have you ever noticed how the best of the best in their industry, whether it be a musician, an athlete a speaker, all make it look effortless? It’s not that they don’t apply effort. They’ve done it so many times that their body is on autopilot in a sense. They’ve honed their skills to the point of mastery. They have confirmed this with meditation.

There is an abundance of information on this topic and an entire book on how meditation affects the brain. The Mind & Life Institute is an excellent resource with hundreds of videos dating back to 2011 on their youtube channel.

celebrities who meditate

Life is busy. It can be overwhelming and seem like there isn’t enough time to add meditation to your to-do list. Let’s shift our mindset; look at mediation from another perspective.
First, you create your day every day. You can choose how and what you do with your time: your work, the people you spend time with, reading, watching tv, social media.

There are many highly successful people with jam-packed schedules who prioritize morning meditation. They purposely choose how they spend their time; they don’t allow their day to dictate their actions. They choose empowerment. You can be empowered, too, starting right now. Take a look at this list of famous people who do or did meditate regularly:

reading list

Books are our teachers. They have been my source of comfort and encouragement over the years. See what calls to you.

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